MoNomo guide
Staying safe
You left a place that controlled who you could trust. Here, you decide. These are the guardrails.
Who is here
- MoNomo is 18+ only. Singles events are 18+, and Drinks events are 21+ with ID checked at the venue.
- Profiles show what you choose. We never show your exact location.
- Still PIMO, or not ready for your ward to find you? Keep your profile to people you have already added.
Meeting someone in person
- First meetups happen in public. Group events are the easiest start.
- Tell a friend where you are going and who you are meeting.
- Get yourself there and home. Keep your drink in sight.
- You can leave at any time, for any reason, without explaining.
- Don't share your address, workplace, or ward until you actually trust someone.
Block and report
Every profile and chat has Block and Report. Blocking is instant and silent: they disappear from your Network and Messages, and they are not told. Reports go to a human moderator. Harassment, pressure to rejoin, outing someone, threats, or anyone under 18: report it.
The rules everyone agrees to
- No harassing anyone, believers included.
- No outing people. Someone's faith status, sexuality, gender identity, and history are theirs to share.
- Use people's names and pronouns. Deliberate misgendering or deadnaming is harassment.
- No recruiting: not for a church, not for an MLM, not for your new thing.
- No means no, in messages and in person.
If something is wrong right now
988 is the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (US), 24/7, by call or text.
Trust the feeling that something is off. You spent years being told to ignore it. Not here.